Trust Yourself During the Journey to College

By Kim Lifton
Wow Writing Workshop 

At Wow, before we start working with our students, we tell them:  Trust yourself! This is your journey, so own the process. When you are done, you will be a more confident, empowered writer, ready for college and your future.

We want to share the message with you. It does not matter where your story takes place, how large or small it is, or what you experienced. You matter. Why you did something matters. What you learned matters. How it changed or affected you matters.

Trust yourself.

Answer any college application essay prompt with a story illustrating the trait you want to share in a way that shows how you think, offers insight into your character and helps admissions teams round out your application package. You should trust your own words, style and voice.

Every year, we work with students who tell us they cannot write; they don’t believe in themselves. We know better. We challenge them to follow our approach. It works. Every time. Why? With instructions, anyone can learn how to write. Think you can’t write?Nonsense.

If you can think, you can write

Meet David, who was one of many students who lacked the confidence to write his essay when he started the college admissions process. Applying to college was stressful; writing the essays paralyzed him. He came to Wow convinced he just couldn’t write.

David had good grades in math and English, and scored well on the ACT. He spoke clearly and articulately. He had good reasons for wanting to study business in college. The boy who said he could not write was a sports reporter for his high school newspaper (and an exceptional varsity hockey player).

Like so many students feeling pressure to get into college, David’s fear of writing this essay prevented him from getting the job done.

“Can you think?” we asked him.

“Um, yes,” he said.

“Well, then, you can write.”

If you can think, you can write, too.

What matters to you? Why does it matter?

We talked about what mattered to David, and why. Why did he want to go to college? What did he want admissions to know about him? What made him tick? He said everyone thought of him as a gifted hockey player. But he had another side few could see. He was kind and compassionate, with a soft spot for special needs children. That, he said, would be a nice thing for colleges to know.

We brainstormed ideas based on what David wanted colleges to know about him. David was afraid to write about hockey. “Everyone” told him not to write about sports. We explained that a college essay was not about an experience; it was about him – his insight into the experience, any experience. If David had a story about sports that demonstrated his kindness and compassion, then it might work.

In the end, David focused his essay on the moment his cousin with Down Syndrome, who regularly attended his hockey games, held up a homemade sign to cheer him on during a game. “I just wanted to score one for my cousin,” David said.

Show insight and share something meaningful

David’s story about his relationship with his disabled cousin turned into an insightful essay that illustrated something meaningful to David that colleges would never have known about him. He used it for two different college applications. It was his genuine story, his idea, and no one else could possibly duplicate it. He was admitted to both schools.

That night, David’s mom called. She had never seen her son this excited about anything other than girls or sports. He finally believed he could write.

David listened to his writing voice, and he liked what he heard.

You can do the same.

Trust yourself during your journey to college.

Give Your Child the Wow Advantage

Year after year, Wow students get into their top choice colleges, including the Ivies, small liberal arts schools, and large public universities. With a Wow coach as a guide, your child can learn how to write great application essays and become a stronger writer. Reserve your coach now by purchasing 1 Complete Essay Package; that coach can be available to work on as many essays as you need. 

Kim Lifton

Kim Lifton is President of Wow Writing Workshop, a strategic communication and writing services company with a team of professional writers and teachers who understand the writing process inside and out. Kim helped create the company’s signature Wow Method, which has been used by students to write application essays and resumes; by business owners to create blogs, websites and other communication materials; and by English teachers to improve student writing skills.  You can email Kim any time at